I always thought that marriage was a partnership between husband and wife. One where the two came together to strive towards their goals together. Maybe because we're young, the factors that go into a partnership haven't been fully established. If you ask your partner to call someone for you because you have other things that make you unavailable, it is a good idea to also let your partner know if you have made changes to your schedule that day so when they talk to the person for you, they don't make arrangements that you can't keep. Ugh, I'm officially irritated for the day. Being the middle man is not fun nor beneficial for a marriage apparently when you're never on the same page.